Breaking up is really, really hard to do ......

So how have you spent your late spring?

Me - Well I've been busy trying to figure out how to detangle 13 years of marriage and 18 years of togetherness.

And it ain't easy.

I spend once a week in therapy trying to sort out my feelings about this, which vacillate between wildly relieved and utter despair.

For the past week I have been looking at apartments in my general neighborhood, trying to find a place that is both affordable AND still somewhat in the neighborhood we have established for our daughter Emily. Ugh.